From Cary Tennis’s advice column on Salon:
I have a 13-year-old son (seventh grade) who has been visiting gay porno sites (two times that I know about). I’ve been able to see the listings from the Web site logs. I’m not sure what to think about this.
Now I know people are always jumping down poor Cary’s throat for being smarmy and elusive or overly flowery in his responses, but I think he got this one perfect, and it’s not just good advice for dealing with a potentially gay thirteen-year-old, but for dealing with anyone you don’t completely understand. Read the full letter and his response here.